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Christa
Posted 2009-11-03 12:45 PM (#142737)
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Hi there,
I haven't had time to sit and put up the bible verses I promised due to all the craziness lately... but I am copy and pasting what I put on another board ages ago, I know I could go through and update it but here it is... It's long!

What is Education?
Okay, to begin with, let's look at what education really is- God defines wisdom, knowledge and understanding for us.

Matt 15:9 says, "Their teachings are but rules taught by men."
Col 2:8 says, "See to it that no one takes you captive through hollow and deceptive philosophy, which depends on human tradition and the basic principles of this world rather than on Christ."

Can you see where I'm heading here? Man has no authority to say what knowledge and wisdom are, although men like to think they know and have these great things in their possession.
But God has this to say: Col 2:2-3 "... Christ, in whom are hidden all the treasures of wisdom and knowledge."

In Jesus Christ are hidden these things. He is the one we need to seek to have wisdom and knowledge, and therein is the secret.

Prov 9:10- The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom, and knowledge of the Holy One is understanding.
Prov 1:7- The fear of the Lord is the beginning of knowledge, but fools despise wisdom and discipline.
Prov 111:10- The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom; all who follow his precepts have good understanding.

It's obvious that fearing God is key to gaining any knowledge, wisdom, or understanding.

Prov 23:23- Buy the truth and do not sell it; get wisdom, discipline and understanding.
Prov 4:7- Wisdom is supreme; therefore get wisdom, though it cost all you have, get understanding.

We may be confused by seeing people who seem to be wise and knowledgeable, having good educations, and great jobs. They may seem to lead very successful lives and be quite influential, and it just may seem that what we see in life and what we hear from God's word seem to contradict each other. But James 1:17 says "Every good and perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of the heavenly lights, who does not change like shifting shadows." And Matt 5:45 says "He causes his sun to rise on the evil and the good, and sends rain on the righteous and the unrighteous." Every good thing we have, physical, spiritual, or mental is from God! Every time you see a beautiful person, skilled craftsman, etc you are seeing something that God has revealed of his own. Every talent is His. He gives to his creation, however it can result in pride in us... And pride is trust in ourselves, not in God!

Okay, so wisdom and knowledge and understanding come from God, and they come from fearing God. Not rules of man... We've got that established...

Who is responsible for our child's education?
Prov 27:23 says "be sure you know the condition of your flocks, give careful attention to your herds." (Oh, you can already see where I'm heading here huh?)
Prov 6:20-23 says "My son, keep your father's commands and do not forsake your mother's teaching. Bind them upon your heart forever; fasten them around your neck. When you walk, they will guide you; when you sleep, they will watch over you; when you awake, they will speak to you. For these commands are a lamp, this teaching is a light, and the corrections of discipline are the way to life."
Okay, there are TONS of verses in Prov that say things like listen my son to your father's words/teaching, etc... So I won't write all of them for you. There's some homework!

What an awesome responsibility and opportunity it is to have children under your roof! To see life in the way that God intended it to be is seeing a good plan.

Who will teach our children?
Titus 2:1- You must teach what is in accord with sound doctrine.

At some point there comes a decision whether we should teach our children, or choose someone else to help us teach them these things. Even if you bring your child to another teacher, his/her education is your responsibility before God. God has set our little ones right on our lap! As long as we have access to them in their growing up years, we are accountable for them. The reason that whom we choose to teach them i so critical is that God has a goal in mind for our children, and that is that they learn to come to him. They will learn things wherever they are, but will it be feeding their heart with pride, or with awe and worship of God? God wants to lead US to a place where HE is our personal teacher. He promises to lead and protect us on this journey through time. If you decide to ask for help, by placing them in a school of some sort, check to see if you are going to be unequally yoked, ie- public school...

You may be thinking "But I don't have the gift of teaching or the interest to teach my children. I don't have the patience and couldn't do it even if I wanted to."

Let me tell you that the Lord has a wonderful plan in prescribing mothers to teach their children. Whether we question our family being able to work together or are wanting to have our own time during the day, I believe God is more than aware of our situation. He has hope right in the middle of it for us.

God so graciously uses the frustrations and impossibilities of our lives in hope that we will give up trying and call on Him to redeem every detail of the situation.

Ps 31:15 "My times are in your hands..." God has a way for us to spend our time on earth that will be rewarding for eternity. We don't have to worry that our time will not be our own. We must lift up our eyes.

1 Cor 15:58- therefore my dear brothers, stand firm. Let nothing move you. Always give yourselves fully to the work of the Lord, because you know that your labor in the Lord is not in vain. (I love that verse!!)

What should a child be taught?
I love Is 54:13- "all your children shall be taught by the Lord, and great will be your children's peace."
Ps 32:8- "I will instruct you and teach you in the way you should go; I will counsel you and watch over you. Do not be like the horse or the mule, which have no understanding but must be controlled by bit and bridle, or they will not come to you."

I believe that we need to teach our children to know GOD, not just to know. If I want them to know God, how do I do that? They learn of Him through His Spirit, His Word and His creation... So my job is first to disciple them to Christ so they can hear from His Spirit. They must learn to read, write and to reason so they can read and share scriptures. This is critical. Now, to learn His creation- that includes the heavens, the earth, and the seas. That covers every subject you can imagine. The heavens include weather patterns, clouds, planets, etc etc. The earth- plenty of science, history, etc there. Seas- water creatures, currents, etc etc. This all helps them to see God in everything, to see His glory. Recognizing Him and His glory in everything is a wonderful education. How about worship? Music is a great part of any child's life. Don't get me wrong, I think worship includes far more than just music. But God does say He inhabits the praise of His people. When we praise Him, whether we feel like it or not, His presence is in this in a special way.

Of course, there are lots of things to teach, character lessons (learned through the Bible...) and art and math and so on. All these things are taught in order to bring glory to the Lord.

Matt 6:33- But seek first His Kingdom and His righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well.

A timely reminder there! These are the most important things- His Kingdom and HIS righteousness. Not mine or what any man might think...

Another verse I recently found is 2 Cor 10:5- "Casting down arguments and every high thing that exalts itself against the knowledge of God, bringing every thought into captivity to the obedience of Christ." I love this one- man has every argument and high thing exalting themselves against the knowledge of God, either knowingly or unknowingly, obvious or subtle...

Okay, there are a thousand more verses and all that I could give you. But I thought I'd give you the highlights of the study that drilled it home for me when I started, thanks to my mentor!

God bless.
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Tory
Posted 2009-11-03 3:31 PM (#142763 - in reply to #142737)
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Thanks for taking the time to post this! And I have to say that you have a great mentor from the looks of things.

I hope you have this printed out, it would be so great to have to this to share with others that are thinking of homeschooling but aren't "sure".
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Christa
Posted 2009-11-03 6:36 PM (#142791 - in reply to #142763)
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Well, I don't have it all printed out, however there is an 8 week bible study that my mentor put together that goes over all this, so I can use it as a referance, PLUS I have several of these and many more verses written in the back of my bible... Wouldn't hurt to print this though hehe
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Jenileigh
Posted 2009-11-04 9:29 AM (#142861 - in reply to #142737)
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Wonderful! I have our story on my blog in my siggie, once my blog is loaded just click the button that says, About KA, it tells all about how we begun and why we stuck with it.
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Christa
Posted 2009-11-04 1:21 PM (#142887 - in reply to #142861)
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Cool! Will do!
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Jenileigh
Posted 2009-11-08 5:58 PM (#143307 - in reply to #142887)
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Thanks!
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hvnasmydestiny
Posted 2009-11-06 12:11 PM (#143091 - in reply to #142737)
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thank you for the great post, I was amazed. I can also feel the love you have for the Word Of God. I am so glad that because God has called me to homeschool my son, He will give me the resources to do just that.

I have been going through a wilderness time, but God is faithful. We have previously just been going throught pretty much the same routine as the public school, just with Christian textbooks. But my son is made differently than me, so that strict route wasn't working. I am changing things up big time. But, I believe that if I follow God's plan then my son will be fine. I don't think it is about the curriculum we use, it is what we do to help them learn who God really is. Do we pray for our enemies? Do we repent in front of our children? Do we read/talk about the Bible? Do we strive to apply Biblical principals in our lives?

I could easily slip into thinking that every requirement the world has should be followed step by step by our homeschool. But the knowledge the world desires is not always the knowledge that God has set before us. Plus, we are individuals. Higher math may be needed in some profession, but honestly (and I love math) I have never used my Algebra II or Trigonometry at all. So, if I worry that my son may not achieve this high level of math, than I am worried about looking good to others. My son is doing well in math, but he is repeating last year's math with a different book (TT ) I don't know if this relates to the original post, but that is the way my mind works.
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Christa
Posted 2009-11-07 1:47 PM (#143176 - in reply to #142737)
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"Not that we dare to classify or compare ourselves with some of those who are commending themselves. But when they measure themselves by one another and compare themselves with one another, they are without understanding. But we will not boast beyond limits, but will boast only with regard to the area of influence God assigned to us, to reach even to you." 2 Cor 10:12-13
"For it is not the one who commendds himself who is approved, but the one who the Lord commends." 2 Cor 10:18

So yeah, let's not compare ourselves with the world's standards of education.

If fearing the Lord is the beginning of knowledge, then that's where we need to be focused. We can learn all sorts of wonderful things, but then it's just knowledge and "knowledge puffs up, love builds up." (1 cor 8:1) knowledge is what the world tends to worship. We start fearing the world and it's standards. And we worship what we fear... we become like that we worship. So if I can still teach my sons all the wonderful things about oh say the stars for instance. Right now we're doing apologia astronomy. So they'll learn about the planets, but not just so they can know it and rattle off the order and if they are terrestrial or gaseous... but instead they'll know those things in order to fear their maker! To know Him and see His glory in all things. God speaks of his majesty and His love for us in everything, if we are wise enough to look. And if we're only focused on 'knowledge' then we miss the boat entirely. If they aren't learning things to bring glory to their Maker, then it's all for not.

And you are so right, do they see us as their example, are we praying for our enemies, are we in the Word, etc. If we aren't walking it, they are smart enough to know the difference between a real living breathing faith that has shoes on and a faith that cannot walk, or cannot even stand because it isn't walked out daily in the real world.

Sorry to hear you are going through a wilderness time. But yes, God is so faithful, and He is doing a work in and through you. Hang in there! Give yourself grace for those down times. We recently found out my MIL (mom in law) has cancer. And so school as we know it stopped for a month. But my kids got lots of lessons in our running her to biopsies and 2nd opinions and on and on. They have learned to fervently pray for her. They've learned that family comes before most everything else. But they've learned that everything else is still there to be done eventually... cuz the work is being done now, hehe! They are learnign about priorities. And they are watching us to see if our faith really has shoes and I sure hope we're showing them that it does... Sometimes faith has to walk in the dark and the muck. But it never stops... God is amazing! And we all just keep learning more and more.

Thank you for your kind words, I do love the Word of God and I'm humbled that you mentioned it. Speaking of which, the house is quiet so I think I'm going to go do some reading right now.
God bless!
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Tory
Posted 2009-11-07 4:10 PM (#143187 - in reply to #143176)
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Just wanted to say that I love your avatar.
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Christa
Posted 2009-11-07 4:54 PM (#143193 - in reply to #142737)
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Thanks That's my sweetheart and me... we're coming on our 15th anniversary this spring... God is good!
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Christa
Posted 2010-01-07 12:50 PM (#150108 - in reply to #142737)
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Bumping this back up
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Christa
Posted 2010-02-02 6:09 PM (#152567 - in reply to #142737)
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Bumping again...
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Christa
Posted 2010-03-25 10:44 AM (#157855 - in reply to #142737)
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Sorry but I'm bumping it up again...
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